I like my boyfriend. Actually, I’m lucky because I like my boyfriend a lot. However, this wasn’t always the case. When I was in college I don’t think I could honestly say I like my boyfriend. Every guy I dated was a loser and I only stayed with each one out of guilt or pity. Now I like my boyfriend and am glad I stopped finding losers. Here are my tips to help you say I like my boyfriend too.

I like boyfriend because he’s not needy

When I was in college, I dated guys who needed me. It felt good at first. In fact, I told friends I like my boyfriend because he’s needy! Boy was I stupid. After about four weeks, his neediness got really old. Don’t date needy guys because they will always be needy. I like my boyfriend now because he is independent and can function if I’m not around. I never hear him whine.

I like my boyfriend because he’s confident

I used to date guys because I felt sorry for them! Can you believe that? But, lots of women make this mistake. They think they can fix the pitiful guys. Nope! Pick someone who’s confident and not only are they great lovers, but they’ll also go much farther in life. I like my boyfriend because he’s a successful businessman. The fixer upper guy I dated in college is in his third stint at rehab. Seriously!

I like my boyfriend because he’s relaxed

My boyfriend is passionate about me and his job, but flexible and laid back in other ways. I like my boyfriend because he doesn’t try to control everything in life, including me! Right out of college I lived with a guy who wouldn’t let me have a Facebook and yelled at me every time another guy even looked at me! Avoid idiots like this. I like my boyfriend because he is relaxed and doesn’t try to control me.

I like my boyfriend because he’s high value

I like my boyfriend because I can go out and be proud of him. He’s smart, handsome, successful, and funny. You need to pick a guy who’s like that too. I used to be so ashamed of my exes. They were drug users and barely employed. I can’t believe I liked them! I like my boyfriend because he cares about success and I can feel like a million dollars when I’m with him.

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I like men. Any of my friends can tell you that! I like men of all kinds, but I can still be choosy. However, this wasn’t always the case. When I was in college I’d sit alone in my dorm room every Friday and Saturday and dream about how much I like men. I was the shy girl and couldn’t get men to like me to save my life! However, now, I’m dating several guys and have never been happier. Stop daydreaming and saying I like men and start getting dates with them! Here are my tips (based on common excuses).

1. I like men, but they never seem to notice me

Why don’t men notice you? The honest truth is most men like attractive women. I like men, but I can’t lie about their true nature. If you’re not a model, don’t give up yet. I made a few little changes that helped me become prettier. I started to wear fashionable clothes, I got a stylish haircut, and I started going to the gym and lost weight. Now, guys pay attention to me a lot more. In fact, I like men who find me sexy (and a lot of them do!).

2. I like men, but they only ask out my friends

Are you open to meeting men? Just because you say I like men and drool over them sometimes doesn’t mean they know you’re available. The guy has to approach us, so he looks for clues to determine if we’re available. If your arms are crossed, you look upset, and you’re frowning, then you’re showing the world (and the men you like) that you’re closed to interaction. Uncross your arms, uncross your legs, smile, and laugh. Don’t act like a slut, but at least act like you mean it when you say I like men.

3. I like men, but they treat me like one of the guys

I see this all the time. Girls say I like men, but the men treat them like their guy friends! If this is you, you’ll have to learn to be more feminine. The first way is to dress up more often and stop acting like a tomboy so much. You also will have to flirt a lot more. Flirting is what we girls do naturally, but only when we’re comfortable and relaxed. So, chill out and have fun and your natural flirt instincts will take over. Oh, and it never hurts to touch him a little. Men really like that.

4. I like men, but I’m too picky

This is another common problem, women saying I like men, but then running away when he wants to get more serious. Don’t let your fear of men cripple you. I like men, but I don’t let them tell me what to do. Just remember that when a man approaches you, you don’t have to marry him! Just relax and let the relationship go as far as you want. Also, I like men, but I don’t let them control me either. Stop acting like you need a man and you’ll relax enough to meet them and have a good relationship with them. And, stop judging them. Just be cool and make new friends.

So, quit sitting around with your girls saying I like men and get yourself an actual date!

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I like boys a lot, probably more than anyone on the planet. OK, I like boys, but maybe not that much. But, when I was in high school no matter how much I told my girlfriends that I like boys, I never actually dated any guys. I was the shy girl and no boys even liked me. Well, now I’ve transformed to a genuine hottie and I thought I’d share my advice. Stop telling your friends I like boys and start getting dates! Here are four excuses followed by my tips.

I like boys, but they only notice my friends

Why do you say I like boys, but they notice your friends? Is it because your friends are hot or sexy? The truth is most guys like girls who are pretty. I like boys, but I can’t lie about them: guys are attracted to good looking women. If you’re not pretty, don’t give up. I made a few changes and became prettier. Wear trendy clothes, get a stylish haircut, and if you’re overweight, lose a few pounds. I did all these things and, although I’m no supermodel, most guys now find me attractive Dress nicely, wear makeup, get a trendy haircut, lose a few pounds, and you’ll probably be attractive to the average guy.

I like boys, but they don’t ask me out

Are you open or closed to meeting men? Just because you say I like boys doesn’t mean you’re actually letting them know you want to date them. What men look for in women is availability. The guy has to approach us, so he looks for clues to determine if we’re available. If your arms are crossed and you constantly have a frown on your face, then you’re showing the world (and the boys you like) that you don’t want anyone to talk to you. Uncross your arms, uncross your legs, and put a smile on your face. You don’t have to act like a slut, but at least act like you mean it when you say I like boys.

I like boys, but they only like me as a friend

I see this all the time. Girls say I like boys, but the boys never seem to get the message! In most cases, these ladies have forgotten how to flirt. Flirting is what we girls do naturally, but only when we’re comfortable and relaxed. So, chill out and have fun around the guy you like and your natural flirt instincts will take over. To get you started, playing with your hair and making eye contact are signs that you like a guy. Oh, and it never hurts to touch him a little.

I like boys, but I’m afraid of commitment

This is another common problem, saying I like boys and maybe even showing interest in guys, but then running when he wants to get more serious. Just remember, that you control your choices. You can get into a relationship without marrying someone! I like boys, but only keep them as long as I’m interested. I’m not rude, but I don’t hang on with a guy out of pity or guilt either. Just move at your own pace, but don’t be afraid to do what you need to do if the relationship goes bad. Don’t let fear of dumping someone keep you from healthy relationships.

Quit sitting around with your girls saying I like boys and get yourself a date!

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Do you tell your friends I like him, but then have no clue how to get him to like you back? If so, you’re certainly not unique. Lots of girls say I like him to their girlfriends, but end up dateless every weekend. If you want to go from saying I like him about the man of your dreams to saying I like my boyfriend, then keep reading. Here are four common excuses followed by my tips.

1. I like him but he doesn’t notice me

Why do you say I like him, but he doesn’t even take notice of you? It’s probably because you simply not all that interesting to a guy. I’m going to be blunt here, but most men don’t care about your job promotion, your newest book of poetry or anything else. Men will notice you if you look pretty. I know it sounds shallow, but guys are attracted to good looking women. If you’re not great to look at, don’t despair. Dress nicely, wear makeup, get a trendy haircut, lose a few pounds, and you’ll probably be attractive to the average guy. Most guys you’d say I like him about don’t expect supermodels.

2. I like him, but he won’t talk to me

Some guys are afraid of women. However, even confident guys who are masters of dating still won’t approach women who seem closed. If you are at a club telling your friends I like him but your body language and attitude say no thanks, you won’t get the guy. What men look for in women is availability. Since evolution has made approaching women the guy’s job, he looks at clues from women to determine if they’re available. If your arms are crossed and you constantly have a frown on your face, then you’re showing the world you don’t want anyone to talk to you. Quit just telling your group of girls I like him and uncross your arms, uncross your legs, and put a smile on your face. That will get a guy to talk to you.

3. I like him, but he doesn’t think I’m interested

I see this all the time. Women come to me for advice about a guy. They say I like him, but they can’t seem to let him know. With these girls, I always advise them to practice their flirting. Flirting is what girls do naturally when they’re comfortable and happy. So, my advice is to relax and have fun around the guy you like and your natural flirt instincts will take over. You’ll be flicking your hair and giving out other signs of attraction in no time.

4. I like him, but I’m insecure

This is also a common concern. I don’t care if you write I like him in your diary everyday, he’s not that special. He’s a human being just like you or me. Don’t put the guy on a pedestal. It’ll only make you nervous and sometimes cause you to put up with lots of crap. Don’t let him think you need him. Make him earn your attention. Just because you like him, doesn’t mean you have to put up with his nonsense.

Quit sitting around with your girls saying I like men or I like boys and get yourself a date! Do you have a particular boy you like? Tell us about them in the comments. Click “post to Facebook” to let your friends and the world know which boys you like!

I confess that I like girls, which doesn’t make me unique among guys. However, unlike other guys who want to find hot girls, but sit at home on weekends, I actually get dates with women all the time. Most guys are frustrated in dating because they got bad advice or they lack confidence. With my four easy tips you can meet girls anywhere and date them!

Tip 1: Approach Any Girl: Banish Anxiety

This problem, called approach anxiety, is common among guys. I like girls and have success with them, but sometimes even I can be afraid to approach. It’s because the male brain is wired to fear approaching girls! We literally think we may die. Make sure you remind your brain that approaching that girl across the room isn’t deadly. In fact, approaching hot girls could get you something really nice, like a relationship. Get rid of the negative self talk and don’t worry about rejection by someone you don’t even know.

Tip 2: Meet Girls Who Like You Back

Just wanting to date girls doesn’t mean they have to like you back. If you’re constantly rejected, it probably means the women you meet perceive you as low value. Women like high value, successful, and confident men. When you’re out, act like you’re the most awesome guy in the world. However, start doing things to become high value too. Girls like me because I’m funny, in shape, and a business owner. Find things to show your value and you’ll find girls too.

Tip 3: No Girls Are Out of You League

There are hot girls for sure, but I still don’t believe in leagues. Any girl, no matter how popular or hot is within your reach. The biggest mistake guys make with women is to put them on a pedestal. A woman is just a human being like you. She farts, poops, and has bad days. So, approach and get to know everyone, no matter how supposedly beautiful they are. Don’t buy girls flowers, drinks, dinner, etc. unless you’re getting something from them like a long term relationship. Don’t bribe women into liking you. They’ll gladly take your drink, but they won’t respect you. You’ll never meet girls if you’re perceived as a loser.

Tip 4: Get Them To Value You

You need to be funny. Girls like genuinely funny guys. If you can get her to laugh, she’ll want to be around you. Use observational or situational humor based on your environment and she’ll not only think you’re funny, but also smart too. Avoid pickup lines and using material you found on the internet. Be original and you’ll be higher value. I meet girls and they like me because I make them laugh.

With my advice you can meet girls and date girls. Let us know the girls you like and why in our comments section. If you’re brave click “post to Facebook” and share the girls you like with your friends (and the world)!

I like women a lot. Of course guys can say I like women until the cows come home, but that doesn’t actually mean they actually get dates. Most guys are frustrated in dating because they’ve either been taught the wrong tips or they lack confidence. With my four tips you can go from saying I like women to actually dating them!

Tip 1: I like women, but I can’t approach them

This problem, called approach anxiety, is common for guys. I like women as much as the next guy, but sometimes they can be intimidating. The male brain is actually wired to fear approaching women! We literally think we could die! The key is to remind your brain that approaching that girl at the bar won’t result in death. In fact, it could lead to something pretty awesome. Get rid of the negative self talk and don’t worry about rejection. Getting rejected by someone you just met isn’t really that big of a deal.

Tip 2: I like women but they don’t ever like me back

Just saying I like women doesn’t automatically mean they like men like you. Not all women will like you, but if you consistently find that girls don’t like you back, you should ask yourself why. If you’re constantly rejected, it probably means they think you’re low value. Women like high value men who are confident and successful. You have to project confidence or high value. If you’re not high value, then do things to become valuable. Saying I like women isn’t enough. Get in shape, start your own business, be funny, become the president of an organization, etc. Do something that gets you positive attention and lets people know you are different in a good way.

Tip 3: I like women, but they’re out of my league

I like women, especially beautiful women, a lot, but I don’t believe in leagues. Any girl, no matter how popular or hot is within your reach. The biggest mistake guys make with women is to put them on a pedestal. A woman is just a human being with flaws and all. So, approach and get to know everyone, no matter how supposedly beautiful they are. Don’t buy girls flowers, drinks, dinner, etc. unless they’re going out with you already. Don’t bribe women into liking you. They’ll take what you’re giving and then give themselves to the guy who doesn’t have to buy their love. In fact, don’t even say I like women around women.

Tip 4: I like women but I can’t get their number

When it comes time to making the close with a girl, the best thing is to be direct. Don’t have a friend get her number, don’t look it up, and don’t wait days to get it. Be direct. If you’re on Facebook, find a way to add her there. It’s also important that you’ve built some rapport with a girl before asking for her for her information. Otherwise you’ll just look creepy. Also, when you text or message her, wait a day or two. Let her know that you’re a busy guy and you don’t need her.

With my advice you can go from saying I like women to actually being with women. Let us know the women you like in our comments section. If you’re brave enough click “post to Facebook” and share the women you like with your friends (and the world)