September 30, 2014

Ex Husband

With divorce rates at 43% (as opposed to the 50% myth), lots of women have an ex husband. In many cases women can be bitter towards their ex husband, while some still love him. Lots of factors can lead to ex husbands, although cheating and abuse are two common reasons. Sometimes, however, women have an ex husband simply because the marriages lose their love. As sad as it is, these things happen. Having worked with many women with an ex husband, here are my tips for getting over an ex husband.

First, I will address women who still love their ex husband. If you are this type of woman, ask yourself why you have an ex husband in the first place. If he didn’t leave you, then why did you leave him? If you left, then your life with your ex husband must not have been great. If your ex husband was abusive or unfaithful, what makes you think he would ever change? If you get sentimental for your ex husbands, just recall why you left him in the first place! You’ll probably lose that sentimentality pretty quickly.

If you are a woman who hates your ex husband, you need some help too. Does your ex husband constantly dominate your thoughts? Do you dwell on how much you hate your ex husband all the time? If so, then it’s now time to let go of your ex husband. I guarantee your ex husband isn’t hurting from your obsession, only you. Don’t give your ex husband any more power! He probably has enough of that in your life without you thinking of him and obsessing over him all of the time.

If you have children with an ex husband then my advice to let go is tough. You may need to have your ex husband in your life for the sake of the kids. If this is the case, then always treat your ex husband with dignity, even if he is not nice to you. Your kids will see the truth about your ex husbands in time. Don’t make them find out that you are petty or insecure. Your children may pick your ex husband over you simply because they feel sorry for him or see him as the good guy.

Hopefully you have a good ex husband, but if not, try my tips for dealing with an ex husband. In time you will be able to move on to someone else. However, pick the right person and don’t rush into marriage so you’re not dealing with a new ex husband!

A lot of women end up with ex husbands because they pick bad men.  To avoid the ex husband problem, my best advice is to go into relationships thinking logically. Don’t fall prey to emotionalism and not properly check out how the men in your life really behave. This will stop one from becoming an ex husband.

If you have advice for dealing with ex husbands, please let us know in the comments section. Click “post to Facebook” to share your comments with your Facebook friends.

Sex Beast

Sex beast is not just a nickname a woman has for a particularly active boyfriend. While there’s never been a literal sex beast throughout history, the concept of sex with a mythical beast has been a staple of legend. So, the closest a woman can come to meeting a true sex beast may be in the books of lore and modern fiction. However, books and movies with sex beasts tell us a lot about what women want and how men can be successful with women in dating.

The first sex beast is the werewolf. The werewolf is a human who morphs into a beast. However, in most literature, the woman is interested not in the human side, but in the beast. One can find werewolf sex beasts in art and literature of the past and the present day. Even in the movie “Teen Wolf,” the main character becomes a sex beast (literally and figuratively) only when he turns into a werewolf.

Another type of sex beast is the vampire. While not truly a beast, the vampire is not a typical human either. While vampires are often shown being more human at times, it is in their vampire state where they are attractive to women, and thus, become a sex beast. The Twilight movies portray vampires as sex beasts. The same is true in the 80s movie “Lost Boys” where the shy Michael becomes a sex beast only when turning into a vampire.

While there are other examples of a sex beast in literature, movies, and art, the existence of the sex beast himself is fascinating. The sex beast, even when he has a human side, is attractive to women only when in the sex beast form. In fact, the human part of the sex beast is usually portrayed as a very average, often bumbling and shy man.

The portrayal of the sex beasts gives an important truth about men. Women do not like the average, wimpy beta male (the nice guy), but prefer someone unique, edgy, and even a little mean. The sex beast then becomes an image for the rebel, the fighter, or most importantly, the one who is interesting by virtue of his power. Thus, the sex beast in literature is akin to the alpha male of the modern world.

In order to be a sex beast with women, you simply have to project your value to them. Looks are important, but in the end it comes down to power. Are you confident, powerful, and worth (there’s the value word) knowing intimately?

For more tips to get any girl you want by becoming an Alpha Male, check out the Joe Alpha Factor. You may not end up as a werewolf, but you will get lots of women!

Romantic SMS Messages

Are you at our wonderful site searching for a romantic sms and free romantic messages? Yep, I’m going to give you a romantic sms or more that are pretty effective at getting you that girl, guy, boyfriend, or girlfriend you want, and even allowing you to show that you are gushingly in love. Are you ready to read gushing romantic messages? Well you may have come to the wrong place, but I have provided a few below. Trust me, my techniques are better, so keep reading.

I have sorted these romantic SMS messages by “for dudes” and “for chicks” so you can use them properly. These are short and sweet, and aren’t too sweet and nauseatingly romantic, but you don’t want to freak anybody out by creepy messages anyway right? Dudes and girls don’t respond to romantic messages in the same way, so it is absolutely essential that you not transmit the wrong type of romantic sms. However, I also want to provide you with a few inside secrets for writing and choosing an effective romantic sms, because I believe that unique romantic messages are far more appealing than sample ones. Below you will find a snippet from our collection. Feel free to use these, but please go down to learn how to craft your own romantic sms messages.

For dudes to chicks
ur great, ur one of my fave girlfriends
i’m busy, will txt u later, k?
ur lucky baby, since ur with me
ur pretty kickin 4 a girl
u r hotter a chili pepper in a volcano
it was sweet 4 u 2 meet me
u look hott today…better take ur clothes off

For chicks to dudes
u rock my world dude
i i have a surprise 4 u tonite
ur the man of my dreams
u look hott today

These are just some samples. You will want to learn how to write your own romantic messages. Below I explain how to do it, divided based on your sex.u
You must be confident, accomplished, and funny when you write a romantic sms. It is okay to show your affection to a degree, but do not be all mushy, needy, and overly romantic. Don’t send a bunch of love poems. That is something a girl would do, which is fine, if you are a girl. Yes, girls claim to want a guy that is extra “nice” and romantic, but they really do not, and you know this fact. Women love confident and slightly cocky guys, period. Part of the way you show your confidence is by not caring too much, and if you gush over them, you care too much dude!

I can tell you, that if you aren’t confident, your chances of meeting, and keeping, a girlfriend or date are slim. If you obey her every order and command, and send her a sms to this effect, you might as well start preparing for the end of the relationship.  The romantic messages above are funny, confident, and basically show that you don’t give a crap, which is exactly what you want. The romantic sms about being busy is very important. Do not text her back immediately, and don’t appear that  you are sitting around waiting for her. Make her wait for a little while. If you are an excellent dude, you have important things to do besides getting back right away, correct? Trust me dude, if you demonstrate to her that you can take or leave her, she will crave your love even more. Again, nobody likes a needy fella. Don’t believe me? Look at the guys women go after. Are they needy, effeminate beta males? No way.

For Chicks
I hope the phrase “chicks” isn’t offensive, since most of my best girl friends call themselves that. At any rate, ladies, it’s ok to get gushy over a guy a little bit, yes a little bit. He will definitely appreciate it. However, don’t be too odd or act like a stalker. Guys like some space. In fact, they need a basic amount of space, or else they will leave you, because most guys are afraid of commitment. You will go from top on their list to “the psycho b*tch” they talk to their friends about if they think you are squeezing them too much. You want your sms  messages to be romantic, but not crazy. Don’t text things like “u r mine forever and eternally” or “we are everlasting soul mates,” or “look out your window; can u see me?” or something like these. They will scare guys off quickly. I know dudes intimately, and I can tell you, they have a word for females like this: psycho. Also, don’t send him romantic messages every minute, on the minute, or send him thousands a day. Just be cool and collected about it. Guys like and want your attention, but you can be too much of a good thing. Like I said, it is ok to send a romantic sms, but don’t be crazy!

See, writing your own romantic sms messages is easy!

Have any romantic messages or thoughts? Comment below and share your thoughts with us and with your Facebook friends!

Best Friend Quotes

Autumn scene with a quoteI love my best friend. So, a few years ago I was searching for a gift that included engraved best friend quotes. I searched on the internet for best friend quotes, but just found a bunch of random sayings about friendship. I didn’t like how these sites had really boring best friends quotes so I went out and did my own research. It took awhile, but I found the most amazing best friend quotes on the entire internet. Below are my all time favorite, hand picked best friends quotes. I hope you like these as much as I do. I also hope you share them with your family, friends, and even a popular teacher you may know. It will make their day too! Trust me!

Best Friend Quotes A-F

Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies

Thus nature has no love for solitude, and always leans, as it were, on some support; and the sweetest support is found in the most intimate friendship.

Friends are relatives you make for yourself
-Eustache Deschamps

It is the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.
-Marlene Dietrich

I have friends in overalls whose friendship I would not swap for the favor of the kings of the world
-Thomas Edison

-It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

A man’s growth is seen in the successive choirs of his friends
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

My best friend is the one who brings out the best of me.
- Henry Ford

Best Friend Quotes G-M

Since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make them.
-Francesco Guicciardini

The friendship that can cease has never been real.
- Saint Jerome

If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself alone. A man should keep his friendships in constant repair
-Samuel Johnson

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival
-C. S. Lewis

The better part of one’s life consists of his friendships.
-Abraham Lincoln

Ah, how good it feels! The hand of an old friend
-Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Best Friend Quotes N-Z

In my friend, I find a second self
-Isabel Norton

Friends have all things in common.
- Plato

A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when memory fails.
-Donna Roberts

Silences make the real conversations between friends. Not the saying but the never needing to say is what counts.
-Margaret Lee Runbeck

The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend
-Henry David Thoreau

-No road is long with good company.
-Turkish Proverb

Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down
-Oprah Winfrey

Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends
-Virginia Woolf

I hope you enjoyed these best friend quotes. You may want to share these best friends quotes with someone you love. I know that this list of best friend quotes meant a lot to those special people in my life.

If you have best friend quotes of your own, why not share them in the comments? Hit “post to Facebook” to share the best friend quotes with your Facebook friends list and the world.

Love Messages (For A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Etc)

A android phone with I luv u on itHave you ever thought about writing love messages to that special someone? Like for a boyfriend? For a girlfriend? Well, you have come to the right place, because I am going to tell you how to write and text the best love messages possible, and also tell you the best way to send them. I am not going to give you free messages that I created. If you want a few free love text messages, then click on that last phrase, and I’ll give you a few sample ones (note: you will also learn how to write your own texts there too!).  

It is a good idea to jot down some messages to your loved ones, whether as love sms messages, or even on paper as good old fashioned love letters (do people still do that??). Why? Because people like getting love messages. I bet you have some ideas for love messages for your boyfriend and for your girlfriend. Everybody enjoys getting a little love message regularly from those they care for. A simple message from a loved one can make someone’s day. Also, a well placed love message can help you get in with somebody, simply because paying attention to people is one way to get on their radar. Below are a few tips to consider when writing love messages.

1. Write original love messages

This is a pet peeve of mine. Don’t steal people’s love messages or take them from TV shows, songs, etc, all the time. It is okay to use some of other people’s stuff, like a classic love poem or a friend’s love note, but you want to throw in some of your original material. Using original material has a couple of effects. First, it shows that you are smart. While nobody likes a know-it-all, people do value intelligence. If you can’t come up with something original, it makes you look dumb, and your boyfriend and girlfriend won’t think too much of you. Second, people value your attention, and they treasure it more if they are sure it is genuinely from you, not some goofy love quote or sms you stole off of  somebody else. Besides, who knows, some creeper sitting in his parents’ basement may be the one writing all those gushing love messages you have stolen – that is gross!

2. Keep it short and simple

People don’t have a lot of time these days. It is a shame, but this reality. Most people are good at cramming a message into around 150 characters, so we expect the love messages we receive to be brief and quickly reach their point. So, whether sending a love message on your phone by text or sending an email or letter, you don’t want to write too much. For one, if you write too much you can look needy and desperate. For example, if a guy sends a message that takes up five texts, it makes him look weird. What kind of guy has the time to text a message that is really long? Well, I say it is somebody that doesn’t have much of a life, who is probably organizing his comic book collection in his spare time. So, keep your messages short, simple, and to the point. If you do this, you will also look kind of mysterious, which means people will want to try to get to know you better.

3. Don’t Be Too Creepy 1: Don’t Go Too Fast

You can come across as a total creeper by doing a variety of things. One thing is by saying too much too fast. You may want to declare your love immediately, because the hormones swirling in your rapidly growing body are telling you to, but you don’t want to declare your love early in a relationship. If you say “I love you” too much or too early, you will look needy and desperate. Play it cool and advance your love messages slowly. You don’t want to look weird or like you need a relationship too badly. Neediness, whether you are a girl or boy, isn’t attractive and isn’t going to allow you to start or maintain a relationship. I suggest taking it easy, and like I mentioned above, playing it cool. The fastest way to turn someone off is to be too clingy too quickly.

4. Don’t Be Creepy 2: Don’t Get Upset in Your Love Messages

Another way you can come across as creepy in your love messages is to get jealous or become demanding. Did I mention you don’t want to be weird. Don’t threaten people, don’t use your love as weapon and “take your love and go home,” and don’t stalk anybody. If someone doesn’t back to you immediately, don’t worry about it. Even if you are upset, pretend you don’t care. In fact, pretend you were so busy doing cool things that you didn’t even notice he or she didn’t respond to your love message. Nobody wants to have to text somebody back immediately, and it makes you look very unstable and odd if you are getting upset because someone doesn’t text you back immediately. Just chillax! Now, if someone consistently doesn’t ever text you back, then just forget about them. They aren’t worth your time. However, most people will get back to you when they have time. One solution to this problem is to actually get a life, and fill your day with worthwhile activities, hobbies, such as sports and community events. Then, you won’t be worrying about whether your boyfriend or girlfriend responded in fifteen milliseconds flat.

You have just been given some effective tips to write better love messages. Remember, writing love messages is easy, if you know what you are doing (and you do now!).

Do you have any comments about these love messages? Have you gotten some horrible ones or some good ones? Leave a comment below, and be sure to share your comment with your BFFs on Facebook!


Best Friends Forever Quotes

I looked everywhere for best friends forever quotes that would express the deep friendship I had with my bffs. However, I wasn’t able to find a page that had a lot of good and inspiring best friend forever quotes from all types of people. I wanted best friends forever quotes that were from both famous people and lesser known writers.

So, what you have on this page is my attempt at finding the most meaningful best friends forever quotes on the internet. I hope you enjoy them. I know I’ve shared them with my girls already. These best friend forever quotes are in alphabetical order by author last name.


My Favorite Best Friends Forever Quotes: A-E

Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies

Thus nature has no love for solitude, and always leans, as it were, on some support; and the sweetest support is found in the most intimate friendship.

It’s the friends you can call up at 4 am that matter
-Marlene Dietrich

A Friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of Nature
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

The only way to have a friend is to be one.
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives
- Euripides 

My Favorite Best Friends Forever Quotes: F-L

Since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make them.
-Francesco Guicciardini

The friendship that can cease has never been real.”
- Saint Jerome

The better part of one’s life consists of his friendships.
-Abraham Lincoln

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival
-C. S. Lewis

My Favorite Best Friends Forever Quotes: M-Z

Friends have all things in common.

There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.
-Thomas Aquinas

Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down
-Oprah Winfrey


I hope you’ve enjoyed my favorite best friends forever quotes and sayings. Why not share some of these best friends forever quotes with your loved ones? If you have other best friend forever quotes, please share them in the comments section. Click “post to Facebook” to share them with your Facebook friends.


Baby and toddler huggingA bff is teenage and young adult slang for one’s best friend. Bff has the meaning of best friend forever and is pronounced bee-eff-eff. The plural, bffs, stands for best friends forever. Although a boy may have a best friend, the term bff is typically used by girls.

Judging by the number of girls texting about their bffs and the bff quotes found on the internet, it’s obvious that girls like having a bff. Below I have tips to get yourself a bff, advice to keep a bff if you already have one, and gift suggestions.

Meeting a BFF

1. Don’t Be A Snob

If you’re stuck up or think you’re better than everyone else, you’ll never have bffs. No girl wants to hang with a snob. If you think you could be stuck up and get bffs, you’re wrong. Sure, snobby people can have friends, but a bff is much more than a friend. It’s a person you’ll bond with on a deeper level. You have to be willing to open up and be nice if you want a bff.

2. Approach New People

I know meeting new people can be tough, but if you don’t have a bff among your current friends, you’ll have to find a way to meet new friends. I recommend being friendly, smiling a lot, and talking to everyone you meet in a day. It can be as easy as saying hello or asking how their day has been. While most of these people won’t end up as your bffs, chances are, if you do this long enough, you’ll find a bff.

Keeping a BFF

1. Don’t Over-Do It

While it’s fun to spend time with your bff, if you’re with her too much you’ll be soooooooo tired of her in no time. In fact spending too much time with your bff will make sure she’s not a bff for too long. The best bet is to spend time with other friends a couple nights a week, so you don’t get sick of her.

2. Have a Big Circle of Friends

You can still make the bff your favorite and give her most of your attention, but if the bff is your only friend, then you will rely on your her for your social life. Even a bffs needs a break from your drama (and you from theirs)! If you haven’t seen a friend in awhile, give them a call and hang out for a night. It’ll be a nice break from your bffs and help you create better friendships with your other friends.

3. Don’t Take Your BFFs For Granted

Just because she’s your bff doesn’t mean you have a right to dump on her. Next time you see your bff, thank her for all she’s done for you. A little gratitude for your bffs goes a long way.

If you want to show your bff some gratitude, why not get her gifts? In my experience, bffs love bracelets, necklaces, and other jewelry. You don’t have to get your bff a unique gift. It can be practical too. Maybe she’d love make up or tickets to a concert. We have a lot of great products featured on this page that your bffs will love. Also, you may like our bff quotes.

If you have a bff, why not tell the world? Leave a comment and click “post to Facebook” to share the name of your bff and why you love her with your Facebook friends and the world.

Asus Tranformer and Specs

I love my Asus Transformer!! I wrote some of this blog on the Asus Transfomer, so I have tested it in every conceivable way in the last few weeks since I bought it.

The market is flooded with all sorts of new tablet computers since the advent of the iPad.  iPads are nice, but they are simply too expensive for what you get (or what you don’t get, frankly).  Don’t forget, when you buy an Apple, most of what you are paying for is the glowing Logo on the back of the device.

Of course, with the advent of iPad, there have been several contenders to the tablet market.  Blackberry has had an entry as well as the ill-fated HP with Web OS.  Neither of these were contenders in the way that the Android Operating System from Google has been.

I have been using Android since it came out a couple of years ago, on the old G1 Machines.  Before that, I used Windows CE (Windows Mobile 5.0) which, for its day, was a pretty good OS in its own right.  But I have really enjoyed the flexibility of the Android OS, and have even dabbled with making some apps.

So when the tablets started coming out, I got taken (that is another article) by a manufacturer that promised more than they tablet could give.  And then, one day, I walked into Best Buy, and there is was, the Asus Transformer.  The Asus Transformer sat there with the other tablet computers, and specifically Android devices.  There the Asus Transformer was right beside the Motorola Xoom that I had been reading about for a few months.  The Xoom is a little lighter and has a higher Res screen, but what I saw next to the Asus transformer was nothing short of beautiful: a full sized clip on, Qwerty keyboard.

Sure iPad has keyboards, and you can plug USB keyboards into most devices coming out these days, but this Keyboard was MADE for the ASUS Transformer.  It easily clips right in, and then it looks like a normal laptop.  The keyboard is beautiful and easy to use too!  Like I said, I typed many of the posts on this website using it.

Together, the Asus Transformer and the keyboard are a little heavy, but not any more than a conventional laptop.  It is fast as lightening too- it came out of the box with Honeycomb, but had an instant upgrade waiting when I hooked it into the wi-fi at home.  It runs the apps beautifully, it has a great screen, and it is extremely fast.

Here is the absolute best part- aside from the fact that the Asus Transformer has HDMI ports, USB ports, a 5 MP camera in the back and a nice camera up from for Skyping with your neighbor, the best part is the battery life!  I have yet to run my Asus Transformer down with a normal day of use.  I have used it for two days straight, sometimes playing videos on it for hours through Wi-fi.  That is because the keyboard dock of the Asus Transformer has a battery in it too- and without a hard drive, the battery life seems limitless.  (Of course, nothing is limitless, right?)

The only complaint is that the audio isn’t great from the Asus Transformer.  The speakers are weak (weaker than my EVO Android phone) and the Mic isn’t anything to speak of.  However, you can hook earphones and a mic in.

I am very happy with my Asus Transformer.  If I need a tablet, I grab it and go- if I need something to type with, I make sure it is hooked into it’s keyboard dock- it is great to go to a place without havgin to worry about plugging into a socket for hours and hours!



Here are the Technical Specs of the Asus Transformer

Asus Transformer Specs:

Brand Name: Asus
Color: Espresso
Item Height: 0.51 inches
Item Width: 6.97 inches
Screen Size: 10.1 inches
Display Resolution Maximum: 1280×800 pixels
Processor Brand: NVIDIA
Processor Count: 1
RAM Size: 1000 MB
Memory Technology: SO-DIMM
Computer Memory Type: DDR2 SDRAM
Maximum Memory Supported: 1 GB
Hard Drive
Hard Drive Size: 16/32 GB
Hard Disk Description: Flash
Hard Drive Interface: Serial ATA
Graphics Coprocessor: No Information
Additional Specifications
Hardware Platform: PC
Operating System: Android 3.0 (Honeycomb)
Battery Description: 1 Lithium Polymer Rechargeable
Average Battery Life (in hours): 9 hours
Lithium Battery Energy Content: 24.4 watt_hours
Lithium Battery Packaging: Batteries contained in equipment

Here are the Asus Transformer Specs for teh Keyboard Dock
Input/Output: 2 x USB 2.0
Card Reader: 1 x 4-in-1 Card Reader / MMC / SD (SDHC/SDXC)
Battery: 24.4 W/h Li-polymer battery (up to 6.5 hours)1
Dimensions: 10.67″ x7.28″ x 1.1″ inches (W x D x H)
Weight: 1.41 lbs (with battery)
Color: Espresso

List of Love Poems

My True Love Has My Heart by Philip Sidney

Song: To Celia by Ben Jonson

My River by Emily Dickinson

The Ragged Wood by William Butler Yeats

Love by Robert Browning

The Lake by Edgar Allen Poe

Why Is The Rose So Pale by Heinrich Heine

Come Fill The Cup by Omar Khayyam

My Love Is Like to Ice by Edmund Spenser

Love Poems: From Marry me to I Love You

Love Poems have always been a way that a man can express his love for a woman, or a woman for a man. Many love poems have been written throughout time, some of the best known by Shakespeare, Keats, and even Mark Twain! Some love poems come from the heart, while others should probably be thrown into the toilet!!

Click here for a list of Love Poems!  From Marry Me to Emily Dickinson!

What makes for good love poems? Well I would guess that the answer would be different depending on who you talk to. For a professor of English literature, the answer to good love poems might be found in the meter and the verse. The technical aspects such as metaphor or deeper meaning. I know that I have taken a few classes from professors like this in my life, and what they consider to be great love poems are sometimes confusing at best. Of course, academics have a way of yanking the life out of a piece of art as they over-analyze some loves poems.

What is best is when you find a professor that is not only good at the technical aspect of love poems, but can dive into their deep meaning- the meaning that the author intended. This is when we see both sides of the love poems that we might be studying, both the technical and the meaningful. A professor like this can make the love poems come to life and kindle the fires of love within the heart of the person that hears the love poems.

Of course, we can look past all this technical stuff to get to the heart and soul of what makes love poems truly touching. Modern day love poems manifest themselves in the form of music on the radio, rap songs, and even speeches made from the depth of a character’s heart in the midst of a romantic movie, or even better, a romantic comedy. This is where the singer or the character in the movie sings and declares of the virtues of love.

What I think makes good love poems are the depth which they can touch a persons heart. Even if the rhyme and meter aren’t perfect, love poems have their most effect when they are written from the heart, recited from the heart, and touch the other person’s heart who hears them. Good love poems need to be read out loud, even if one is reading them alone because true love involved the whole body, mind, and soul. How deeply can we understand the famous soliloquy by Romeo in Romeo and Juliet, and his love that he has for her as he sees her on the balcony. These are the type of love poems that ignite the soul of a man and woman who not only hears them, but says themselves

So, no matter how love poems are manifested, they should proceed from the heart- they should be said with passion and vigor, they should be said with meaning. Even if the love poems are simple declaration of the love of a child for their mother, no mother can reject love poems from the heart. Likewise, if a man wants to win a girl over, love poems, even ones that he didn’t not write himself, saif from the heart, can open the heart of even the most difficult woman.

So go, be inspired! Read, recite, and be enlivened by the greatness of love poems! Be they song, poem, monologue, or simple words from the heart.