September 2, 2014

Love Messages (For A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Etc)

A android phone with I luv u on itHave you ever thought about writing love messages to that special someone? Like for a boyfriend? For a girlfriend? Well, you have come to the right place, because I am going to tell you how to write and text the best love messages possible, and also tell you the best way to send them. I am not going to give you free messages that I created. If you want a few free love text messages, then click on that last phrase, and I’ll give you a few sample ones (note: you will also learn how to write your own texts there too!).  

It is a good idea to jot down some messages to your loved ones, whether as love sms messages, or even on paper as good old fashioned love letters (do people still do that??). Why? Because people like getting love messages. I bet you have some ideas for love messages for your boyfriend and for your girlfriend. Everybody enjoys getting a little love message regularly from those they care for. A simple message from a loved one can make someone’s day. Also, a well placed love message can help you get in with somebody, simply because paying attention to people is one way to get on their radar. Below are a few tips to consider when writing love messages.

1. Write original love messages

This is a pet peeve of mine. Don’t steal people’s love messages or take them from TV shows, songs, etc, all the time. It is okay to use some of other people’s stuff, like a classic love poem or a friend’s love note, but you want to throw in some of your original material. Using original material has a couple of effects. First, it shows that you are smart. While nobody likes a know-it-all, people do value intelligence. If you can’t come up with something original, it makes you look dumb, and your boyfriend and girlfriend won’t think too much of you. Second, people value your attention, and they treasure it more if they are sure it is genuinely from you, not some goofy love quote or sms you stole off of  somebody else. Besides, who knows, some creeper sitting in his parents’ basement may be the one writing all those gushing love messages you have stolen – that is gross!

2. Keep it short and simple

People don’t have a lot of time these days. It is a shame, but this reality. Most people are good at cramming a message into around 150 characters, so we expect the love messages we receive to be brief and quickly reach their point. So, whether sending a love message on your phone by text or sending an email or letter, you don’t want to write too much. For one, if you write too much you can look needy and desperate. For example, if a guy sends a message that takes up five texts, it makes him look weird. What kind of guy has the time to text a message that is really long? Well, I say it is somebody that doesn’t have much of a life, who is probably organizing his comic book collection in his spare time. So, keep your messages short, simple, and to the point. If you do this, you will also look kind of mysterious, which means people will want to try to get to know you better.

3. Don’t Be Too Creepy 1: Don’t Go Too Fast

You can come across as a total creeper by doing a variety of things. One thing is by saying too much too fast. You may want to declare your love immediately, because the hormones swirling in your rapidly growing body are telling you to, but you don’t want to declare your love early in a relationship. If you say “I love you” too much or too early, you will look needy and desperate. Play it cool and advance your love messages slowly. You don’t want to look weird or like you need a relationship too badly. Neediness, whether you are a girl or boy, isn’t attractive and isn’t going to allow you to start or maintain a relationship. I suggest taking it easy, and like I mentioned above, playing it cool. The fastest way to turn someone off is to be too clingy too quickly.

4. Don’t Be Creepy 2: Don’t Get Upset in Your Love Messages

Another way you can come across as creepy in your love messages is to get jealous or become demanding. Did I mention you don’t want to be weird. Don’t threaten people, don’t use your love as weapon and “take your love and go home,” and don’t stalk anybody. If someone doesn’t back to you immediately, don’t worry about it. Even if you are upset, pretend you don’t care. In fact, pretend you were so busy doing cool things that you didn’t even notice he or she didn’t respond to your love message. Nobody wants to have to text somebody back immediately, and it makes you look very unstable and odd if you are getting upset because someone doesn’t text you back immediately. Just chillax! Now, if someone consistently doesn’t ever text you back, then just forget about them. They aren’t worth your time. However, most people will get back to you when they have time. One solution to this problem is to actually get a life, and fill your day with worthwhile activities, hobbies, such as sports and community events. Then, you won’t be worrying about whether your boyfriend or girlfriend responded in fifteen milliseconds flat.

You have just been given some effective tips to write better love messages. Remember, writing love messages is easy, if you know what you are doing (and you do now!).

Do you have any comments about these love messages? Have you gotten some horrible ones or some good ones? Leave a comment below, and be sure to share your comment with your BFFs on Facebook!

 

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